Stroller access, change tables, somewhere comfortable to feed a baby—these are the details that can make or break an outing. Gerber TotSpot​™​ puts that info at a parent’s fingertips.

I have a very vivid memory of my first solo outing with my oldest daughter, Sophie. She was born in mid-November and, for weeks before her arrival, I’d had visions of pushing a stroller through the outdoor mall near my house, festive drink in hand, doing some Christmas shopping. In hindsight, this was completely ludicrous. I knew it that morning, too, after weeks of newborn chaos, but I was desperate to get out of the house and resume some sort of normalcy. So, I put Sophie in an adorable white snowsuit with bear ears, packed a bag way, way too full of baby gear and hit the road. I’d even put on makeup and unearthed my own cute hat and scarf. (See aforementioned normalcy.)

When the plan goes sideways

It started out well enough. I fed Sophie in the car and figured she’d doze in her stroller while I shopped. But not 15 minutes later, just as I was getting my peppermint hot chocolate, that gorgeous white snowsuit became the first casualty of the day: Potentially the worst diaper blowout of her entire life had seeped up her back. It was even in her hair. She wailed and I panicked. The café bathroom was too small for the stroller; there was no change table and laying my tiny infant on the floor wasn’t an option. At that point, I would have killed to be back in my pyjamas on the couch.

I went from store to restaurant to salon looking for somewhere to change her, to no avail. But just as I’d decided to do my best to clean her up at the car and head home, someone suggested the movie theatre across the courtyard. Inside was a huge, fully equipped family washroom complete with a nursing room. I could have wept. After I sponge-bathed her, changed her, fed her and rocked her to sleep, I ended up buying a ticket for a matinee movie. There was no Christmas shopping that day—it all got done online that year—and my festive drink was stone cold. Instead, there was popcorn, another outfit change, spit-up on my pretty scarf and a baby who alternated between sleeping and nursing through the movie. Which, admittedly, we could have done at home.

But that outing taught me something important: to do my homework before I went anywhere with a baby (and then a toddler, and then a school-ager). From then on, I researched things I’d never thought about before—stroller access, change tables and somewhere to nurse or feed. And as she got older and her little sister joined the party, the list changed. I started looking for high chairs, kids’ menus and enough room for a toddler to be a toddler without feeling like we were disrupting everyone around us. It was no longer enough to know where we were going; I needed to know whether the place would actually work for us when we got there.

Gerber TotSpot - Getting Out With Little Kids

The little things are actually the big things

With babies and toddlers, details that once barely registered can make or break an outing. Stroller-friendly entrances and changing facilities matter. So does something harder to quantify: the feeling that children, in all their loud, messy glory, are welcome.

​​​That matters more than you might think (certainly more than I ever thought it would before I had kids). ​

According to an Ipsos survey of parents across 28 countries, ​73 percent of moms and dads report feeling judged for their child’s behaviour in public. ​ ​

It’s part of why the brand is looking beyond mealtime​ to help build a more family-friendly world and lighten the daily load for ​modern parents.

Available for Toronto, Vancouver and Montreal, ​​Gerbe​​r​​ TotSpot™ ​​​is​ a digital guide ​that helps parents easily find spaces with essential ​amenities​, like stroller-friendly layouts, accessible change tables, high chairs, kid-friendly ​menus​ and play are​​as, collected all in one place. ​​​ ​It’s​ built around the ​kind of parent-to-parent intel I spent years cobbling together myself. Parents can discover local hidden gems and contribute favourites of their own, creating a growing resource shaped by families who actually know what it’s like to navigate a city with little ones in tow. 

There’s also an extra layer of reassurance built in: Recommendations are audited by real parents before earning the official Gerber TotSpot​™​ seal of approval. So rather than starting from scratch every time you want to try somewhere new, you can see places that have already passed the baby-and-toddler test—then add a great find of your own to help the next family along. 

More getting out, less figuring out

My kids are 12 and 15 now, so my stroller-pushing, diaper-changing days are well behind me. But I remember just how much effort it could take to get out of the house when they were small—and how good it could feel when we actually did. (To be fair, that impromptu movie became a favourite memory of the early days of Sophie.)

Because as much as staying home can sometimes seem like the easier option, getting out with little kids can be really good—for them and for us. It might be coffee with a friend, lunch somewhere other than your own kitchen or an afternoon spent exploring somewhere new. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate adventure to break up the day and make the world feel a little bigger.

There will always be some unpredictability involved. No website can guarantee a good mood or stop a toddler from deciding that today is the day they will refuse to sit in a high chair. But as the woman who once wandered around a mall with a newborn in a poop-covered bear suit looking for somewhere—anywhere—to change her, I can confidently say Gerbe​​r​​ TotSpot​™ ​​would that outing, and so many others, so much easier. But as the woman who once wandered around a mall with a newborn in a poop-covered bear suit looking for somewhere—anywhere—to change her, I can confidently say Gerbe​​r​ TotSpot​™ ​​would have made that outing, and so many others, much easier.

Explore ​Gerber​​ TotSpot™​​​ to discover ​parent​​-friendly ​spots ​​​in Toronto, Vancouver and Montreal, and share a local favourite that could make another family’s day a little easier.