If youโ€™re anything like us, you probably try to steer your brood past the loot bags at birthday parties, praying your kids wonโ€™t notice. You already know whatโ€™s in themโ€”random toys and candy that will potentially break, cause fights or get stuck in someoneโ€™s hair on the way home (and nobodyโ€™s got time for that). But we do admit that itโ€™s nice to thank your guests, and itโ€™s important to teach your kids to show gratitude, so weโ€™ve come up with great favour ideas kids and parents alike will love. Most of the parents we surveyed said the same thing: The loot needs to be useful or edible. If itโ€™s food, it shouldnโ€™t be messy or make life difficult for Mom and Dad (so skip the penny candyโ€”go for something like a couple of these delicious homemade energy balls). If itโ€™s useful, it should have staying power and be well made. Easier said than done, right? Right. Especially on a budget. But donโ€™t worry, we got you.

1. Stationery sets

Weโ€™re all for one great item instead of many not-so-great items, which is why we love sticky note and note pad sets. Theyโ€™re already packaged, so add a cute thank you tag and cross โ€˜loot bagsโ€™ off the party to-do list.

2. Pencil case filled with pencils or markers

Instead of using a disposable bag for loot, go for something reusable. Kids love new pencil cases and colouring or writing supplies, so this is a surefire crowd-pleaser.

3. A book

This might seem overly simple, but is there anything better than a new book? It can be anything from a mini picture book (perfect for diaper bagsโ€” Mom or Dad will thank you the next time theyโ€™re stuck in traffic or waiting in line) to a graphic novel. Set a per book budget and let the birthday boy or girl help choose for their friends.

4. A gift certificate

Most people think gift certificates have to mean big bucks, but you can do totally $5 gift cards to places like Baskin Robbins or Tim Hortonโ€™s. Kids love the grown-up feeling of handing over plastic, just like their parents, to pay for a treat.

5. A donation

OK, so this one is a little boring for the party goer but altruism is never a bad lesson to impart. Work with your kiddo to find a charity that resonates with them, choose a dollar amount per guest and make a lump-sum donation. Post a sign or hand out cards at the party to explain this philanthropic loot option to guests.

6. Take-home craft or treat from party

If you really want to get creative, plan a party activity with a take-home final result. That way, youโ€™re keeping the kids entertained and saving money by not having to shell out for party-game supplies in addition to a take-away gift. Think about activities like T-shirt or tote bag painting, cookie baking or cupcake decorating.

Originally published in the Fall 2018 issue.ย 

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